What makes best friends, best friends?

Recently I came across a video, well can check it out below! Already attached the video from Youtube below.

I've always been pondering, what makes friends, friends? What makes best friends, best friends? Well, this video answered my questions. True enough on what they say. Time, an important factor to being best friends. If there isn't enough time together, if you don't know each other for long enough, you can't possibly become best friends unless you are just "superficial" friends or best friends. It's time that shape best friends into best friends. Why? It take time to learn about the other person, their flaws, their likes and don't. Only best friends will show you their true self, they share their deep dark secret. They will listen to your troubles, they will always be there for you and they will be also accepting your flaws just for you. They listen to you, they will change for you because they know you mean the best for them. You can be their influence, they can be your influence. They can change you, you'll listen to them, they at the same time do the same to you. That may sound deep, but that's what being best friends have to be.  

Because you don't become the best for nothing, you know?

What about it then, next, being understanding. another important factor, the most important. The whole part of being best friend would matter if you didn't understand each other.

Well, this whole video is just so so so true to me, I mean the things they've mentioned in there. Thanks for sharing this on facebook and allowing me to see this video through there. The ending was kinda sweet~ Aw... "What's the last part?" "Us." 

Sometimes things may not go the way you want it to go. Sometimes you seems so unimportant and sometimes you seems so unwanted. Yet sometimes, you seem like you're important and wanted, being cared for and loved. Things may not always seems perfect but when it is, we have to learn to treasure it before it perish away in just seconds. You may not know, you may NEVER know what someone is thinking in their mind, maybe it's nothing but your sensitivity got you thinking that the person is making the worst out of everything. Like what I retweeted today on Twitter:

I need best friend there will always with me, like spongebob and patrick there always together no matter what happen.

 I've always thought they will be there for me, thought. I hope, I'm right. All I could say is enjoy the video. Perhaps you'll have some people in your mind while watching this. :)

Shooting Camp~

 Last Sunday on the 18 November 2012 went to shooting camp! Been like a year since I went back to shooting! Went to meet up with XinYi and Chester at BPP to take away lunch and then we went off to school! The juniors were practicing their BBQ-performance items and we went off to find the facilitators. Been walking so many rounds but we couldn't find them! -.- In the end finally someone pick up the call and we found them! Ate our lunch and it's time for the water games! :D

What's the fun part of shooting camp? Well the same old few stuffs as always, seems like our tradition already. Hahaha! BBQ, H2O and the hottest favorite, WATER GAMES! We proceeded with the water games and really had a great time playing with all of them! Hahaha, firstly as usual, juniors will get prank and then water on them, then this year let seniors kana too, then Mikaail said why not I get splashed, and everyone's on me! LOL, obviously, next is Mikaail getting splashed! xD Hahaha! Great afternoon which I didn't regret going for the water games. :)

Went to dry ourselves up and it was BBQ night. So many same batch people wasn't there as they all have wedding to attend. :( Well, super long didn't catch up with them already. BBQ night was still kinda fun with the juniors and some seniors! :) Overall, enjoyed my half a day in school! Before going home we had some photo taking then we headed home!

I've decided to keep everything to myself.

Sometimes when you keep things to yourself perhaps it's better for everyone around you.

At least you'll be the only one suffer and not let others suffer with you.

Stressed up.

There's nothing much I can say but I really gotta admit that I'm stressed up.

Time?
What's time when you have commitments at other places other than school, when you have exams coming up real soon, when you have so many reports to do, all halfway done and yet all of them are so hard to be completed. Theory seems easy, cos you only need to look up for research. Hey, don't be so naive! Don't even know what theory to look up for and don't even know what to do research on, and what and how it's supposed to be presented. Oh well, trainings, reports already take up most of my time these weeks and next week should be slacker but yet, my reports seems to be taking up a lot of time. MST is just coming in 2 weeks time meaning I'm left with this week and next week to study. Am I prepared? To be honest, Not at all. What to do? Trying hard to complete all my reports well and fast now just hope I've got the time to complete all of my studies for all the modules before MST starts. Everything is so theory, nothing much I can do but to just understand and even memorise.

I'm really feeling freaking stress up now!

First Clubbing Trip~

Ah Mui, Kayven and Cassan~ :)

 Went to clubbing yesterday (Friday) night to this (saturday) early morning~! Chiong back home after training to bath and whatever to prepare to go for clubbing. Took cab to Holiday Inn to buy alcohol. We bought the package which have 2 mixer, Jagermeifter, Chivas, red bull and of course ICE. Then head over to Zouk to buy the entrance ticket and met up with the babes~ Headed over to the bridge to drink and we drank until like 1am x.x Like so late can! Hahaha! Tried so many drinks last night! Shall sum up what we ordered and drank and then you will know why it's like kao, so much!

Jagermeifter

After drinking, we headed over to the dance floor! At first wasn't use to it cos the music that the DJ was playing is like songs that I don't know of. And that got me a little turn off! :X After awhile the songs changed into those pop songs and then we just got so high! Hahaha! Just got reminded of what happened during prom night but for sure clubbing is more fun than prom "clubbing". After awhile we are all like shaggg and drunk somehow. But not that drunk to the extend la... Went to order some drinks to drink, we ordered 1 jug of Vodka with apple flavour, tequila shots, lychee martini, vodka with coke and erdinger beer. That simply explains why I say we ordered so much! Then we went out to meet together again cos in between we keep on lose track of each other. And back to the dance floor, which that was the best part of the night I supposed?! :D

Really did enjoyed my night! Thanks to those who make it memorable and fun! Next time again maybe? :)

Garden By The Bay ~

Reaching Marina, on bus!

 Finally after Garden By The Bay at Marina is open for visit, had my first visit there today! :) Well, we went for a jog around Garden By The Bay, a really refreshing place to run at! We run, we jog, we chiong, we walk, we....dance. LOL! Well, had a really great time at there today with troupe! xD After the jog and run and whatever, we went to the 2 dorm that was there. 

Garden By The Bay ~

Firstly we went to the Cloudy Dorm!

Well, we need to let the person tear the ticket and as we were with sweat and stuffs, it was freaking cold when we enter the cloudy dorm! With the aircon, waterfall and stuffs... Totally can catch a flu anytime. Haha. Well, inside was pretty interesting with all of the exhibitions and other stuffs. Apparently being able to walk at such high sea levels, looking down at everything, looking out at the nice scenery, taking photos together with troupe here and there, nothing is much more better than that! Also saw XiuHong and XiuYi in the dorm! After which we leave the dorm and proceeds to the Flower Dorm. Well, before going into the flower dorm, XiuYi, XiuHong, their brother and Hao we were all Phewtick-ing! LOL. Hahaha. So freaking funny when we were rushing in and yet wanted to phewtick. Kinda retard looking at what we are doing. Hahaha.

So after which we entered the Flower Dorm!

There's different types of variety of flowers in the dorm, some looking special and some which can be seen in Singapore along the expressway, neighborhood or whatsoever. Something that really caught my attention is one of the cactus in the dorm! The cactus looks normal like the other cactus but the cactus have hairy like stuffs on the top of it, with little unappealing flowers. We were like omg, rotten already? And it came out to be that the hairy-like stuffs is to protect bats from it and the unappealing stuffs came out to be their flowers. Kinda interesting when you start to know what those things are!

For those who love to take photos or want to just take photos of nice nice flowers, the flower dorm is a really good place to take photos! The photos taken in there was extremely beautiful, ok la, to be honest, many photos taken today was better than expectation! BEAUTIFUL~ :D Some flowers were just so beautiful and so photogenic, their striking colours make the flowers looks kind of fake in the photos but they are too real to be true~ Those are not fake flowers!

Here are some photos of the flowers taken in the Flower Dorm!

 Ok enough of the flowers, these are just some of the photos taken today! Time for some People photos! Took quite a lot of photos today, normal camera, iPhone, Polaroids, DSLR, blah blah! Had an really enjoyable trip today, now let the photos do the talking, of course with the help of the little captions! Hehe. LET'S GO~

New birds, young birds, MIRROR

With ChiahHou bro~

ChiahHou and Sheng Jie!

With Rona Jie!

And this is the very nicely taken Polaroid group photo! xD

Starbucks! :)

Sup! These few weeks I think I have a new addiction which is a very expensive addiction and craving. 

STARBUCKS! 

Ok. who don't agree that this is an expensive craving to satisfy and an expensive addiction? Alright, I'm not that rich to be paying so much for beverages every time to satisfy my cravings! Hahaha. Recently there's this Christmas special which apparently they will have them yearly though. Managed to try all of the 3 drinks mainly Peppermint Mocha, Toffee Nut Latte as well as Cranberry White Chocolate Mocha. All of the 3 ordered in the Frappuccino way. Well, person favorite out of the 3 will be Cranberry White Chocolate Mocha I guess? I kinda like Peppermint Mocha too but for some who tried and cannot take the peppermint taste they kinda dislike it though. Haha! Alright, down to pictures for Christmas special then normal menu~ :)

Toffee Nut Latte

 Yea so this is the Toffee Nut Latte, apparently this cup I drank and shared with classmates was extremely extremely sweet to the core! Totally a sweetness that will make you go "dafug..." But after letting the ice melt a bit and diluting it a bit, the sweetness of the drink is more acceptable. Everyone got their own preferences though :)

Peppermint Moch啊

Out of the 3 Christmas special, this is my 2nd faorite! Peppermint Mocha! I can take the peppermint taste and smell so to me this is not bad already la uh~ The blend of the coffee and peppermint is just right as the peppermint smell wasn't too strong that it covers the Mocha and that little bit of chocolate syrup on the top adds on the the little extra sweetness when you're finishing your drink~ Totally heavenly! 

Cranberry White Chocolate Mocha

 I just tried this today! Yea yea, just finishes it before even coming to blog about it! Hahaha! My sis treated me this cup! Hehe. Thanks to her who made my day better. Well, sweet things does cheer you up. Just like chocolate! I seriously love the syrup on top of the whipped cream! Like seriously~ The syrup has cranberry and little things on the syrup which is so so so crunchy! I don't really know what it is though... x.x Shouldn't be nuts ba I guess. But, damn nice. The drink was also kinda sweet think it's due to white chocolate but at least it's in the acceptable range. :) Favorite of all from the Christmas special series! :D

Ok back to the normal menu! I seriously am in love with GREEN TEA LATTE! For those who don't drink green tea, you ought to try this! The green tea isn't like those bottled or cans green tea but, it's just different. Different look, different taste, different texture and different mouthfeel. The Green Tea latte is so well blended that I am craving for it again and again! Ok, not everytime. But at least now the first drink I will think of when I think of buying starbucks is green tea latte. Bought a hot green tea latte a few days back in school and thumps up for it! xD Heh. the green tea frappuccino also taste well, but thanks to the weather and school aircon being so cold, decided to buy the HOT and SEXY one! So booms!

Green Tea Latte

Given up...

 Been 2 days, yet nothing changed. Everything remain the same, the changes remains unchanged. Hoping to rewind the changes, hoping to make the changes into something, just perhaps somethings I used to have. Just want to get back to the past, hopefully, getting back to the time when things seems so perfect, when things seems so nice and warm. Unlike now... Weird.

True enough, we can never ever make everyone happy, we can never ever make everyone feels satisfied. Even if you find someone is important to you, you may not be that important to them after all. Because all they see in you, is hatred, someone who will be there for me even when the others aren't.

Them, are the people who take you for granted.

Them, are the people who don't recognise you.

Them, are the people who've never really put you in mind.

Them, are people who you care the most, do the most for them and yet, makes you feel that you deserves better.

Them, are people who only realise you when you're gone.

No one likes to be taken for granted. And yet, all along, we are learning on how to adapt to be taken for granted. Till now, I hope I can have a book of life, a book that will allow you to see all the lessons in life that you have to take, who are the people or what are the things that will happen then you will be able to learn the lesson. How many lessons are we to take. We gain something and yet we will lose something. Yes, we learnt a lesson. However, we lose a friend, we lose somethings we used to have and used to appreciate.

I want to be optismistic, like everything have a positive effect, have a positive reason, have positive stuffs behind everything. Why? Just why does all negative comes to us? Our brain always look on the dark side, not the good side. Time to wake up and say to yourself. Hey, there's a good side to everything. But what? Wait, it takes time to realise. How are you going to let yourself be happy while waiting to find out what's the cause, the reason, the effect, the consequences behind all these? Time...

I'm sorry... I gave up waiting, I gave up doing unwanted sacrifices, I gave up being the best I can be... Because in the end, I don't deserve getting what I'm getting now. All I get is nothing, but treated like a fool, a big fool... I've tried. I tried my very best. If you see it, sense it, thank you. But if everything still seems so far away and all they see is me being an annoying person. Hey, thank you for hating me, thank you for being once in my life. Just want to let you know, I've never regret knowing you. I appreciate your presence, all that you've done and all that you've contributed in my life. Sorry I'm not a blessing in your life but a lesson. I hope I and them can be a blessing, but things doesn't seems that way...

While my heart says give it up, my mind shows me this... Why?

Indescribable feelings...

I've seen, I've experienced, I've known, but still, I never want to experience ever again...

People come and go in your life, that's something we cannot deny. Some come as a lesson to your life, some come as a blessing in your life. Perhaps like what others said, I'm being too loyal in friendship. In the end causing myself being the one getting stab, getting hurt again and again and again.

Sometimes I really don't know. Of them, some, I really thought they will be a blessing in my life, like finally, I met them. In the end, slowly things change and I've become and am becoming to realise that they seems to be becoming a lesson of my life. If ever you ask, what's the difference between being a lesson and being a blessing, after someone teaches you a lesson, they normally leave. Or not, they will not be as before, they will become someone whom you used to know.

I don't want but still I hate having this feeling. Being from strangers, to friends, to very close friends, to friends, to friends who rarely talk, to friends who feels awkward together, to someone I used to know, old friend. I mean, why these can't last? Especially being with close friends, aren't that the best feelings of all? Able to talk to each other of everything and anything, able to go anywhere together, not awkward, not anything else. But yet, it doesn't last?

These few days there's really many many many many troubles piling up,  many things happening, many things changing and many things evolving. Things often change before you can even know why or even before you were expecting a change. You can't help but to adapt, sometimes when you choose to voice out, yet, you're becoming the one caring too much, bothering too much, being too much.

I've no idea whats up with my mind. I want to get rid of all these negative thoughts. I really really really wants to.....

November~ A good start!

 It's November! :) Well, finally! This year really pass by very fast especially when in Poly. Sometimes it really felt like everyday is holiday but when school work really came into place, hazards and burden are all around. Oh well, what to do? Haha. Can only study hard and do well for exams and surpass your limits to get good GPA. Easily said, how easily done? Hm..

Yesterday had training, been so long since we played Kai Xuan for drums and yesterday we changed our places for the drum set already cos more drums are added into them. No more center! Hahaha. Finally played something different though not a lot~ xD After which we also trained other stuffs. Always so into playing instruments. Didn't regret learning xiao feng luo in the past. I mean, till now I still find it fun!

After training we went to kopidiam to eat and went off to The Rail Mall Harry's to celebrate Rona jie birthday! This is my first time drinking and my first drinking session with anyone on this earth! Never really dare to drink because I'm really afraid of getting drunk. Furthermore, the smell of some alcohol really annoys me sometimes. Well, too smelly to be honest. But guess now I'm able to accept the drink taste already? Haha. Let me showcase to you my virgin drink!

My virgin drink- Jager Bomb

Jager Bomb! My first drink in my life. But guess we all drank it too quickly, I didn't really taste the alcohol at all though. LOL. Only taste red bull somehow. Hahaha. Next time should slowly drink it~ :) Tried out many types of drinks last night, well, since you are there and prepared to just drink, just go ahead and try them out isn't it? x) My second drink I bought is Lychee Martini, this alcohol taste is really strong! Can taste it and smell it. The lychee is canned syrup lychee, so obviously it's sweet. But when the lychee and the martini mix together, heavenly I tell you! Such "neutralizing effect"! I love the lychees in it! Hahaha.

Lychee Martini

 And here's the birthday girl! Happy 20th birthday Rona jie! Have a blast! Whatever I wished all in sms already. :P HAHAHA. Enjoy your day to the fullest, hope you like our present and the celebration alright :)

With birthday girl~

With 好朋友~好兄弟~好狮头

 From May 2010 till now it's like 2 years plus already? Finally today I got my braces removed! :D And I'm so not use to not having my braces in my mouth and on my teeth now! I feel the emptiness in my mouth. Haha. Idk how to really explains how it feels but nevertheless, happiness. Just now when at the dental, I was expecting it to take some time to remove my braces and didn't expect it to be so fast. Just a few cutting and stuffs here and there and my braces is out already! :O Dentist asked how you feel now, I thought the braces was still on me but nope it's already out. I think it's because I'm feeling the gule on my teeth or not it's the emptiness that makes everything feels weird. Hahaha. Did the mold for the retainers and off I went off without braces anymore. Hohoho~  Hope my teeth will maintain and everything goes well for it yea :) Tomorrow go back to dental to collect retainers, another 2 years ahead!

Hi nice teeth, bye braces :)